2015 Co-educators

2015 Co-educators
2015 UConn Co-educators Begin Their Cape Town Adventures

WELCOME TO OUR BLOG

As anyone who has participated in UConn's Education Abroad in Cape Town will tell you, there are no words to adequately explain the depth of the experiences, no illustrations to sufficiently describe the hospitality of the people, and no pictures to begin to capture the exquisite scenery. Therefore this blog is only intended to provide an unfolding story of the those co-educators who are traveling together as companions on this amazing journey.

As Resident Director of this program since 2008 it is once again my privilege and honor to accompany another group of students to this place I have come to know and love.

In peace, with hope,
Marita McComiskey, PhD
(marita4peace@gmail.com)

Tuesday, April 28, 2015

Onna thankful for the realization that the adventure doesn't stop here

Life moves too fast when you least want it to. Yes, here I am talking about time once again. I need to stop denying the fact that I will be leaving Loch Road on Thursday morning. I am thrilled that I have the opportunity to extend my trip for 10 days but I can’t help but think that it isn’t enough time.

To put it lightly, I’ve fallen in love with this place. Cape Town has exposed me to new worlds of opportunity. It has reconfirmed my hope in humanity. I have learned that the love you can give and take is limitless. I have learned that action speaks volumes over words. I have learned to look within myself and celebrate the fact that I make mistakes and still have so much to learn. I have learned to think twice about judging another as they might have problems that we can’t even wrap our mind around.

My last week here has been relaxing but enjoyable. On Sunday night Emily L, Julia & I attended a production called Artsemble. Andrea, the social worker at Elonwabeni that we have grown quite close to was one of the MCs for the night and introduced the many different acts; a choir, comedian, dancers, bands, poets and rappers. Each performance was absolutely incredible and reminded me of the incredible capacity of humans. I thought it was impossible, but I have grown to appreciate the world of art even more since coming here.

Last night we grabbed dinner with Andrea one last time. She asked us what the highlight of our trip was… trying to narrow every single experience into one was overwhelming and it made me think about how I am going to emulate this experience to my loved ones when I return. I want them to hear the street music, feel the love of complete strangers, see the light beams above Table Mountain as the sun saluted to us every evening, taste the spice of the curries. I want everyone to feel what I have felt because I have never felt so thankful to be alive.

I’m worried that people won’t understand this transformational experience or the things that I have come to believe in. Andrea understood our concerns about going back and told us that we must keep ourselves busy when we return home for the summer. She told us that it is going to be easy to get lost in the memories of being here. It’ll be easy to sulk and become unmotivated when comparing South Africa to the United States. A place can never be compared to another. She advised that we keep ourselves busy this summer and let the memories continue. She also suggested that when we do long for those memories, that we surround ourselves with people that we shared these memories with. My level of discomfort decreased after she said those words and I remembered that I would have the pleasure of meeting with these 17 incredible individuals that contributed to making this experience the best 4 months of my life.

These thoughts bring me back to a sign outside of one of the food trucks at the music festival that we attended in March. It read: ‘I can’t go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.’ We all have the capacity to fill our minds, hearts and souls with new experiences everyday. The adventure doesn’t stop here. 





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